Thursday, December 1, 2011


Wednesday, November 30 -- Gratefotos

I mentioned my Dad and Loraine during my grand tour -- but didn't point out that I am thankful for them specifically. I don't want to leave them out! -- because I am very thankful for them! I confess, the photo wasn't exactly taken today -- it's from this summer when we all were at Brent's house. I'm glad they're still so healthy and willing to travel -- always up for a party, a game and a good time.

Tuesday, November 29 --- Gratefotos

Last year John gave me this stadium seat for my birthday. I was rather unimpressed. After using it for a year -- I'm singing a different tune. I love this thing! I have certainly spent my share of time perched on hard, cold, uncomfortable bleachers! So now -- I can honestly say -- I am so thankful for my stadium seat. He had my name embroidered on it -- which is pretty cool, too.

Monday, November 28 "Gratefotos"

We got back home to WI too late on Sunday to buy a Christmas tree. I was a little bummed about that. Then -- I had this cool surprise on Monday at work. People came by to drop off a huge tree that they donate to the church where I work. I was helping unlock the doors for them and find a place to put it. They offered to let me buy one of the extra trees that they had in their truck (they were planning to sell the extras to a lot). So -- I bought a 10 Frazier Fir for "wholesale"! I am so thankful for my WI Christmas tree! We're thinking about sticking some lights on it and some ornaments.

Sunday, November 27 -- Gratefotos

This is actually -- the day -- my birthday! -- day 4 of the "Four-day, four-state, friends and family birthday tour." We stopped in IL to visit Mindi, Ian, and Uncle Rick. Seeing them was so fun - -but sad because Aunt Karen and Whitny June couldn't be there, too. I am grateful for all of them. I really should have taken a better photo -- either captured the fam or Mindi's cool apartment. This really shows neither to any advantage. Mindi threw this great birthday lunch party for me -- salad, Chicago-style pizza -- and Boston Cream Pie for dessert! Actually, Uncle Rick was responsible for the cake/pie -- nice work! So cool to be with them "on the day!"
Saturday, November 26 Gratefotos

This would be Nina and Poppy - our dear friends. We stayed with them on day 3 of the "Four-day, four-state, friends and family birthday tour." They are "be there for you" kind of friends. I am so thankful for them. We love staying at their house in Elkhart, IN. They make us feel right at home. I know where everything is at their place -- even the extra rolls of toilet paper.

Friday, November 25 -- Gratefotos

Yep -- that would be 3 ---- 3 birthday cakes! On day 2 of the "Four-day, four-state, friends and family birthday tour" we stayed at my brother Brent's house. His amazing wife Kelly hosted 6 house guests for the weekend - -then invited more friends over on Friday evening -- and celebrated my birthday. And -- she made me the most amazing birthday cakes! -- chocolate, covered in ganache! Wish I had taken a picture of Uncle Brent, Aunt Kelly, and the little cousins. I am so thankful for them -- and I love them even more than I love chocolate ganache -- and that's saying something!

Wednesday, November 30, 2011


Thursday -- November 24 -- Gratefotos

Thanksgiving Day!!!!!

Well -- hard to tell who is in the picture -- but it is the Davis family! -- My husband has 3 other women in his life besides me -- his mom, big sister Debbie and twin sister Jill. I am so thankful to God for these amazing women. After 20 years of marriage, I can honestly say that they have never treated me with anything but kindness and generosity. I am so blessed!

We drove 7.5 hours on Thursday morning to join the Davis side for Thanksgiving dinner at my nephew Tim's house. This was the first leg of the "Four-day, four-state, friends-and-family, birthday tour." With John's mom and sisters and their families -- we totaled 19 people! Grandma Davis roasted the turkey -- because she's the best. (After you eat Tina Davis's turkey -- you'll never really want anyone else's.) And Grandma Davis invited my dad and his wife to come to dinner, too -- which was great! Such an awesome day --- well worth the drive!

Wednesday, November 23 -- Gratefotos!

I am thankful for Gracie Mae -- my dog! She is just the sweetest thing. Most of the time. Her favorite activities include sitting on Mom, taking a walk, sitting on Mom, eating chicken, sitting on Mom, chasing squirrels -- and, of course -- sitting on Mom some more! Here she is modeling her Sherlock Holmes look. People often ask about her breed. She's a mutt! Shows that a little style and attitude is more important than pedigree!

I am also thankful for my friend Connie who is kind enough to let Gracie Mae stay with her while we are out of town.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011


Monday, November 21 --- and Tuesday, November 22
That's right -- two days in "Gratefotos"

I am so thankful for my kids, Woody and Dwight. I am counting a day for each of them. Neither wanted to let me take a picture, so I dug this one up from last summer. They are with their cousins. Woody is on the bottom of the pile -- Dwight is on the far left in a red shirt. I know it's not nice to brag -- so I'll refrain. Sure am thankful for them, though!

Sunday, November 27, 2011


Sunday, November 20 -- "Grateftos"

These might look like just an old pair of shoes to you. To me, however, they are my happiest pair of shoes. When I am wearing them, I am in one of only two places -- on stage or on the dance floor! Tonight we went ballroom dancing with our Oshkosh dance friends. I was so busy "cutting a mean rug" that I forgot to take a pic while at the dance -- which is sad. For years I wanted to learn to dance, and finally John agreed to take lessons with me. Turns out -- he's pretty good at it! One week when we had already been dancing twice, and I was talking about a third dance, he reported: "Sweetie, I don't go dancing because I love dancing, I go dancing because I love you!" So -- not only am I thankful for dance shoes -- and a place to dance -- but for a great partner as well!

Tuesday, November 22, 2011


Saturday, November 19 -- Gratefotos

Tonight the Cooley family came over -- brave souls! I didn't subject them to my cooking. We made sandwiches. We did subject them to a rousing game of "telestrations" though. And, we thought we would warm them up with a beautiful roaring fire in the fireplace. They have recently move to WI after living in Brasil for 5 years. They really miss that equator -- let me tell you! Well -- we haven't used the fireplace yet this season, and it must have some issues. Clouds of hazy smoke backed up into the house. We had to open doors and vents to clear the air. So much for warming up our friends! I thank God for my new friend Karen and her family and feel blessed to have them all here -- in freezing cold WI!
Friday, November 18 -- Gratefotos --

Today I am giving thanks along with my friend Mary Jo. She closed on her new house! Mary Jo actually works in my office -- which is great! Unfortunately, she works in it when I am not there. She has a different day job. This summer, her schedule was different, allowing her time to come in and visit -- and paint and help redecorate our office. She definitely brightened my summer! And I thank God for her. When she talked about buying a house, I introduced her to my dear friend Sheri Knepel -- Realtor extraordinaire! When Mary Jo started house hunting, she let me tag along. We all fell in love with this house on the very first day of looking. And -- she ended up getting a good deal on it. I am looking forward to seeing how she will feather her new nest! And -- happy as I am for her -- I am so glad that all of the moving boxes in this picture belong to her -- and not to me!!!

Saturday, November 19, 2011


Thursday, November 17 -- "Gratefotos"

No -- I'm not really trying to say that I am thankful for this pizza place. This is just the spot where a monthly amateur film-makers forum is held. Last year, Woody filmed a short that was entered in a Wildwood Film Festival. Mr. Mata-Sanchez, one of his friend's dads, helped him enter. I had no idea what the whole thing was about. Anyway, his piece was accepted and was shown (along with tons of other work) at the PAC in Appleton. He was one of the few kids who had stuff in the festival. Since then, he has been invited to this forum. I am thankful for the adults in this industry who take time to encourage and mentor my kid as he pursues his passion. I guess I could have gone inside and tried to get a picture of these guys -- but I think Woody would might have complained: "So awkward!"

Wednesday, November 16 -- Gratefotos:

Today I got a haircut. My dear friend Connie cuts my hair in her salon that is attached to her house. I absolutely love going to get my haircut! Connie is so fun --laughs at all of my stories -- gives me a great haircut. I am so thankful for her!

Tuesday, November 15 -- in "Gratefotos" today we have . . .

The Grand Opera House

Tonight we had our monthly meeting of the Oshkosh Community Players at the Grand. I almost forgot to take a picture -- had to drive back and stand out front to try to get a shot of the front doors. The theater is a very cool old building that has been completely renovated -- restored to its original Victorian grandeur. I have watched shows here -- attended a Graduation party here -- helped with our high school show here -- performed here. And I've made some new friends here. I am thankful that we have this cool venue here in Oshkosh.

Wednesday, November 16, 2011





Sadly -- today's photo will not load properly -- which kind of defeats the purpose of "Gratefotos"

Monday, November 14 -- Grate-no-fotos:

Out to eat with our friend Jim. This gentleman is a highly successful businessman who has been a kind friend to our school. On a few occasions, John and I have had the opportunity to go out to eat with him. He talked me into trying calamari. First time -- possibly the last time -- all on one small plate. When we asked about his secrets to success, he reported that he really wasn't any good at business. We smiled. He did add that he was honest. I thought that was actually an awesome answer.

Sunday, November 13 -- In Gratefotos . . . my neighbors!!!

My next-door neighbor Kim invited all the neighbors over for a soup supper! We had so much fun. Her soup was great -- and everyone else pitched in with appetizers and desserts. I am so thankful for such fascinating, thoughtful people in the houses next to me -- behind me -- across from me -- down the street from me. When I explained about the blog -- and wanted to take a picture, they kindly lined up behind the table. Does this look like a modern adaptation of The Last Supper or what?

Tuesday, November 15, 2011


Saturday, November 12 -- Gratefotos

Peggy and Trevor!!! These are our FPU friends. For 13 weeks, Peggy and Trevor came over and sat in our dining room to watch Dave Ramsey's Financial Peace University DVDs on the computer with us. We are too cheap to buy the DVDs -- so we borrowed them. And then, we invited Peggy and Trevor to come watch with us. Having them come helped us to stay motivated to finish the program. I am so thankful for them! I am also thankful for Dave Ramsey and his message of Financial Peace. I give him a hearty recommendation! We made Woody and Dwight join us most of the weeks -- and they liked Dave. On Saturday, Peggy and Trevor and their kids came over to celebrate completing the program. We made pizza and watched a movie. And barely spent any money.

Friday, November 11 -- Gratefotos --

I confess to cheating on this one. I didn't take the pic on Friday. I actually took it on Monday -- but I was thankful on Friday! -- and on Monday as well!

Occasionally I eat lunch in the teachers' lounge at Oshkosh Christian School/Valley Christian High School. This is a huge highlight for me. I work by myself a lot -- so having lunch companions is awesome! I never know exactly who I'll find lunching -- a different smattering of teachers, several ladies from the office -- my husband. But -- every time I am there, I feel so welcome -- like I'm part of the family. And for that moment, I am surrounded by a pretty amazing community of people who are passionate about their faith -- and about kids! I am so thankful!

Monday, November 14, 2011


Thursday, November 10 - -Today's "Gratefoto"

Don't be confused by the dates on my blog. Although things may tend to look like I forget to be thankful every now and then -- I really am pretty much on track. I just don't make time to post everyday. So -- then I have to catch up! Then the "posting day" and the "Gratefoto day" are not the same date. I'm still thankful, though!!! And I hope to catch up!

On Thursday, I had the opportunity to volunteer with the Salvation Army! The pic is of my volunteer pin. People were able to stop by the Oregon St. center to pick up coats for the winter. People could also sign up for holiday meals and toys for kids. I was surprised by the number of college kids volunteering that day. At the end of the evening Captain Don Karl stopped in. He has a way of making everyone feel vastly important. I enjoyed my evening with the Salvation Army -- and hope to get to help again at another point in the season.

November 9 – “Gratefotos” Today I am thankful for . . .

That’s right – you do see snow in that picture. Today we had our first snow of the season. It was thick and wet and gloppy – and not very safe. But – to me it was still beautiful. I’m always a little fearful of saying that too loudly. Too many haters.



Tuesday, November 8 – Another day in “Gratefotos”

I’ve decided that this month really needs its own title. I can’t think of anything clever – or very clever that is. I’ve decided to go with “gratefotos” because I’m trying to combine the idea of gratefulness in photos. The funny part, I think, is that to the ear, this sounds like I’m saying “great photos.” One look at the pics posted here should immediately exhibit the humor in that idea! I have been taking the pictures with my phone. Few of them are even decent. So – even if the title isn’t clever – it is kind of funny in its own way.

So – yesterday – my pics are of the main floor of The Waters – which is the elegant yacht club at the end of my block – right next to the lake. I forgot to take pictures until the last minute – so I missed the most important part. The thing I’m grateful for is bigger than just the beautiful venue. Last night we had our Annual Banquet for Valley Christian High School/Oshkosh Christian School. I wish I would have captured a frame of the people involved. This is an awesome event that showcases our school and encourages individuals to invest in its students. The evening started with appetizers and music provided by the students on the main floor. Later dinner was served in the banquet room upstairs. During dinner, different people told stories about their connection with the school. I felt so blessed to be there – to hear the stories – to rub elbows with students, parents, staff, and donors. In some ways I feel humbled to be a part of this – when the people/things that fostered this great institution happened long before I ever came to town – as though I am just a “hanger-on”.

Afterwards, while talking to some neighbors – I told them about walking past The Waters for months before I ever got to come inside. I told them that I felt like a little girl wanting to peek in the windows of someone else’s party. They replied, “And now you’re hosting parties here!” I know the school is hosting the event, but I felt so blessed to be a part of the evening. I thank God for Valley Christian High School/ Oshkosh Christian School and the role it is playing in our lives!

Monday, November 7, 2011


Monday, November 7, Today I am thankful for . . .
new chairs!



But - more than that -- I am thankful for the kind neighbors who gave them to me. I didn't get to take their picture, but I wish I had! I'd rather post one of them than one of the chairs! This summer I had a garage sale -- which was netting a meager amount of cash when my neighbor Melody arrived with her stuff in tow. Would I mind selling a few of her things? She stacked beautiful antiques out on my sidewalk. Foot traffic increased, and people bought a little of my junk while celebrating over acquiring her treasures. All in all -- I felt like she provided free advertising for me! But, at the end of the day, her 6 dining room chairs were still there. I was eyeing them -- -- but repeating the mantra "get rid of the stuff, hang on to the cash".

A week or so ago while walking the dog, I bumped into Melody. "Will you just take the chairs? Bob can't get his car in the garage because they are in the way." And -- you know me -- anything to help out a neighbor! So, all in an effort to help Bob get his car parked in the garage before snowfall (which could happen any second up here), I am giving thanks for 6 beautiful matching dining room chairs!

I'm so accustomed to our mismatched set. I wonder how it will feel to have company without having to carefully arrange the chairs so that larger guests don't land in the quasi-broken relics left over from the dining room of my childhood! Can't wait to find out!
Sunday, November 6 --

Here we have Samantha and Karmen. When all of the girls from the "Summer Sunday Night Bible Study for the ADD" left for college during August and September, Sam and Karmen graciously decided to attend class in town. I like to think they made this decision with me in mind! I appreciate them and all of the good times we continue to have in our Sunday night Bible study!

Saturday, November 5

We were invited to lunch at the Landwehr's home. Renee makes incredible lasagna! After lunch we took a walk along the channel that runs in front of their house. The layout of the channel and walking path and the locks are kind of hard to explain, but beyond where the locks are, huge chunks of limestone pile up. We walked out into the middle of the water on these enormous slabs. Scott is the cross country coach. I like this picture of Dwight with his dad and his coach. (Woody didn't get to go with us because he was busy driving w/the driver's ed instructor.) Not only am I thankful for this beautiful scenic spot -- but for Coach Landwehr and his wife Renee!

Saturday, November 5, 2011



November 3

My little friend Phoebe celebrated her 16th birthday on Thursday -- with a big bash! She invited her friends out to the family farm where they had a bonfire and great food -- and games! The best part was -- she invited me too! The picture is hard to see -- but her mother, Christine, is standing behind the magnificent fire. I am thankful for Phoebe and Christine -- two of my WI friends!


November 4 --

Woody invited friends over to help him shoot a movie. I was busy baking cookies and making supper for all of them when suddenly I heard beautiful music! I absolutely love having guests play my piano! Here is Nate giving us a free concert. Later Becky played, too -- but I didn't get a picture of her. I am thankful for people who play my piano!!!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011





November

As I am sure you all know, November is just about the best month ever! Not only do I celebrate my birthday in this month -- but also my anniversary! And -- the whole country celebrates Thanksgiving during this month as well. Some years -- Thanksgiving and my birthday land on the same day. That's cool.

My plan for my blog this month is to take a picture everyday of something for which I feel grateful. Now -- we all know how faithful I am to this blog -- so yeah, if I post three pictures this month, I am going to call this mission a huge success!

Tuesday, November 1 --

Well, that was yesterday (I'm starting out a day behind), my anniversary -- 20th to be exact! My husband brought me flowers and candy at work, then took me out to lunch! I thank God for him! Also -- the restaurant gave us a complimentary mini cake -- which was a nice bonus. (Thankful for that, too!)

Wednesday, November 2

Just something simple today -- Hot Cocoa!!!!!!
Today was very overcast and rainy. I felt thankful to be warm and dry in my cheerful office. And -- I was so happy to have a little cup of hot chocolate! For some of you from the fam -- look very carefully at the picture -- see the spoon? Remind you of anything?





"No Capes"

Lucky for me, I arrived in Chicago first after Mindi Wood cleaned out her closet. This meant that I was the lucky recipient of the clothing she was discarding! I know, I'm kind of gloating about my good fortune!

In the fancy bag of goodies was a top that Mindi said didn't work for her. It was very cute, so I gave it a whirl. Let's just say that if it didn't work for Mindi -- it was a total disaster on me! I think perhaps it was one of those items designed for those 5'10" women who are mostly legs -- not really a Wood trait.

So -- in the spirit of Dave Ramsey, I decided to make-do. Mostly I just made-over. I cut the top along the sides, then re-cut the front -- and the back band -- stitched together the leftovers -- and voila! -- an apron!!!!!

Yeah -- check the picture -- it's awesome! I have never really had a fancy apron before. I had no idea how cool this would be! I swear the thing has super powers. And, upon further reflection, I've discovered why: an apron is pretty much just like a superhero cape -- only when you tie it around your neck, it hangs down the front of you! I almost like cooking when I wear it –clearly something magical going on there! Think any of Mindi’s cooking skills will rub off on me? The apron also emits this sense of comfort as well – kind of like a security blanket. I put it on – think of Mindi and the other nieces – and I just feel safe and happy.

I checked out the aprons at the local boutique: $25 - $35 (and not as cute as Mindi’s shirt-apron). I didn’t recognize the label in shirt (no big surprise there), but I preserved it – just in case it’s something really groovy!

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I have worn it nearly every day for the past 2 weeks. I even speed over to the neighbor’s while wearing it – entertain company in it, have a hard time taking it off when I’m done in the kitchen.

Probably should have checked to be sure it was machine-washable before I started the project. Oh, well!


Thank you, Mindi!

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Priceless Princess Moments

Every now and then in my adult life something lovely happens that probably would have made more sense if it had happened when I was younger.

Two years ago, my friend Gail asked me to sit for her. She didn’t mean she needed a babysitter. She is a portrait artist. Generally, she takes lots of photos of her subjects, and then selects the best parts and pieces from the photos to combine them into a portrait. Then, she sells the masterpiece for hundreds – possibly a couple thousand -- dollars (depending on how many subjects are involved). She told me that she needed more practice painting from real life – rather than from photos. Would I sit for her? Would I sit for her!!! There is something intensely flattering about having someone want to paint your portrait. And, if that wasn’t already lovely enough, she insisted on paying me for “modeling” for her. Several afternoons a week for a couple of weeks, I went to her beautiful home and stood in my pose in the window of her studio. I loved the experience! Part of what made this so magical was spending time with my friend. I confess a little hero worship for Gail Palpant. Sometimes I think that I would like to be Gail Palpant when I grow up!

At some level this beautiful moment seemed odd to me, though – to be painted when I was older, when my most beautiful, youthful days were long behind me.

See if you can find me on her website: http://www.gailpalpant.com/gallery-II.htm

Just recently I had another such experience. Our school had a huge auction in March – a major gala event. Because John was serving as Master of Ceremonies – or host – or whatever the title was, the auction committee wanted him to wear a tuxedo. A friend of the school offered to buy me an evening gown for the event. This charming, generous benefactor prefers to remain anonymous; so, sadly, I cannot name him or post his picture. He did give me an extremely generous budget for shopping. I don’t believe I have ever shopped for an evening gown before. I wasn’t even sure how to go about it! I thought I needed something long – since John was going to be very formal. After looking at the mall – and rejecting the cupcake prom look – we tried a bridal shop. The little sales girl had an interesting idea. She asked if I would like to look at some of the bridal gowns on the discount rack. I hadn’t thought of that – but it sure sounded fun! What old married lady gets to try on wedding gowns?! I believe she was thinking that some of the champagne or cream-colored ones would suit as an evening gown. The auction had an old Hollywood “red carpet” theme, and one of the wedding gowns looked like retro glam to me. And it fit! – Mostly. Of course it was 6 inches too long and had a significant train.

After trying on wedding gowns – all of the bridesmaid gowns at the shop looked so – um, ordinary. I put the dress on hold so that I could “sleep” on it. I slept well and went back to buy it the next day. I then had to take it to a tailor to have the 6 inches cut off – as well as have the train removed. Let’s just say I spent nearly as much $$ at the tailor as I did for the dress in the first place. I tried to find a wrap to add some color to my outfit – but with no success. (I really didn’t want to look like a bride.) In the end, I bought a white cape – also retro glam. So – off I went to the ball in the most-incredibly exquisite Cinderella gown of my life! The auction itself was so magical. I continue to be amazed by the staff/faculty/friends and family that comprise our school.

Again I had that odd feeling that the timing was muddled – as though my days for dressing up like a princess should probably remain in my past.

So here’s to my past youth – and some of the leftover glories of it – still lingering into my “later” youth! I feel so thankful that God would put these untimely blessings and beautiful people in my life!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

Winter for the Wisconcitizen


I am a MI girl. I was born in Grand Rapids. And I spent 6 years of my adult life in MI as well. Winter is not exactly a picnic there. For several years, we lived in Watervliet -- an itty-bitty burg in the "lake-effect snow zone" near Lake Michigan. Recently we moved to WI. While the move was in process, people asked me if I was ready to be cold.

Am I ready to be cold? What kind of question is that? I'm a MI girl, for Pete's sake! You think I don't know what winter is? People then looked at me wisely, smiled politely and changed the subject.

Haughty of me, I suppose. Now I know. And, no -- I'm not ready to be cold!!!

When the thermometer launches into the 20's -- I think, -- oh, it's warm! I won't need so many layers! I wear hiking boots to Walmart in order to accommodate that extra layer of wool socks. Sometimes I just keep my bib-overall-snowpants on inside the house. Cuddle Duds are a standard part of the WI wardrobe (along with a great deal of green and gold). I have a personal relationship w/my space heaters -- one at home, one at work.

I try to remember to run down to do laundry while I still have my boots and coat on -- so much more comfortable. Actually, our basement is so very cold that I have considered just washing the laundry in a bucket in the back yard because it might be warmer!

If the refrigerator gets too full -- no problem. We can just store the perishables in the kitchen cupboards -- plenty cold in there!

A previous owner of our antique house explained to us the importance of running a fan behind the vent to the pipes to the shower in the master bathroom. Failing to do so might allow the pipes to freeze. Doesn't that create images of a warm toasty bathroom? We didn't follow his directions one night, and the water in the shower drain did indeed freeze. After a few minutes of running the water, the ice melted and the water drained. Thank goodness!

Even on the most painfully cold days, I still walk the dog about 3 miles. Sometimes I think it takes longer to put on all of my layers - and later take them off again -- than it takes to walk the 3 miles! Don't envy my "Nanook of the North" fashion statement!

This week -- on Wednesday -- March 23 -- we received 6 inches of fresh snow. So --yeah -- WI stands for WInter! I gotta run. I need to empty the dryer before the clothes get freezer burn. Where's my parka?